Hey Hi Hellooo... I hope everyone is doing great. Its been more than an year since I had posted last here. So, without making you wait anymore, I'll quickly move to the today's topic. You must have got a clear idea from the title itself.
This is the most common phrase we use in day to day life. And the most common behaviour in human beings. Whenever anyone would narrate us an incident happened in their life in which they “THINK”, they didn’t get the desirable treatment from the other person. So, what do anyone of us would advise the narrator?
Nothing but to go with TIT FOR TAT….
As simple as that, right?
Just think twice, is it that easy and straight forward?
I think this “TIT FOR TAT” thing has a different dimension too, which might impact a lot on our personality as well as thought process.
So, I’ll try my best to put it into simpler words. Just consider, if other person is behaving rudely with you (you hated him/her for this). And, you are using this TIT for TAT technique to tackle the issue each time. In short, you will start seeing through the eyes of that person and will behave accordingly. Then, eventually your thought process would improvise itself to this technique and you’ll behave rudely with that person in each encounter. Though, that person won’t get affected much by this behaviour because he/she never cared about you. Everything is pretty okay till this point.
But the problem is, as a human being we can not change our thought process quickly according to a person with whom we are interacting. As a result, the rudeness you’ve brought vigorously in your behaviour will get generalised to each person in your life, who might not have behaved/ had intention to behave rudely with you. And eventually this rudeness will become an inseparable part of your personality, which will hurt only the people who loved and cared for you. Because, the person who was the cause of your rudeness might not exist in your life at that point or even if he/she exists, he/she won’t get affected cause he/she didn’t cared about you ever.
So, I feel this TIT for TAT technique is going to eventually turn you into the person you hated the most. you could use this technique only if you are able to keep your negative behaviour limited to negative people. Which is nearly impossible as a human. So, better don't let the your past ruin your future.
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