Hey... Hieee... Hellooo... hope everyone is doing well...After reading my last post some of my friends asked me to write something about a break up in which we don’t have any other way than moving on or leaving the person. So, this post is for all those who are going through such a phase where they don’t have any other way but to move on… I hope It would help…
Firstly, we can try to recover the relation as I have already mentioned in previous article. But if, there is no other way than being apart, then it becomes very difficult to overcome. I know, it is not that easy…
Many of us rush themselves into another relation, just to overcome the pain… Rather I would say, just to run away from all those memories. But, if you would have noticed, you are most likely to be comfortable with people, who share something in common. So, what may happen in this situation? If, you are rushing yourself into another relation? Probably… you will find the person who is in same situation as you are. And always remember, the person who himself/herself is empty (sad) from inside, can’t fulfil you (make you happy), for which you rushed yourself in this relation. And you will again end up either breaking someone else’s heart who was genuine in relation or you, yourself will remain broken and frustrated.
Instead of this shall we give some time to ourselves? to transform our negative emotions? Break up is nothing but all the negative emotions/energies …. But the biggest problem is, how shall we deal with those???
We all know the law of conservation of energy, “energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it can only be transformed from one form to another”
Now, many of you would be like “hey Sanvedana, what are you talking about? What is this energy having to do with break up?”
Let me make it simpler for you… when you were with your loved one, you were happy and joyful. After some time (if relation was not going well) these emotions got replaced with anger or irritation… sometimes? And after you broke up, those again got replaced with loneliness, sadness, and pain, right? (emotions are nothing but energies either positive or negative… that’s why those affect our mood)
So, this is the connection of law of conservation of energy with break up...
Now, what shall we do in such situations?
See, we can always transform our energies/emotions into another form of it. But, which form you choose to transform it, is the most important decision ever. This can take you to the everlasting success or it may ruin your life.
In history, many of the artists have made their best arts when they were broken from inside…. They just transformed their energy into another form (In right way). Some of those transformed it in paintings, some in sculptures, some in poems, some in songs, some in their writings/shayaries, some in gyms etc.
We can also try this out… so that we can overcome from the situation. Whenever life drags us down it doesn’t mean that, we will be unsuccessful. If we will use those energies in a right way, these downs can take us a way higher than we would have ever imagined. Once it went wrong doesn’t mean it will be like that all the time.
Give one more chance to yourself… lets transform our energies into right form and be the source of infinite happiness rather than being a seeker… Lets be the owner of our own happiness…. Then no one will be able to break you… 😊
