Break-up 💔

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Today’s topic is the most common problem in everyone’s life. Without keeping much suspense, I’ll reveal the topic…. It is BREAK-UP!!!!!

Whenever we listen to this word break up, the first and only relation comes in our mind is gf and bf or any relation in which we share a romantic bond with other person. Right?

But, is it necessary that, other relations couldn’t go through broken bond?

In our day to day lives, we are seeing many relations like parents and children, siblings, friends, in laws etc. These relations are always taken for granted. While, those are the most important bonds… Usually we pay more attention to our romantic relationships. Because, in other relations we are bonded by birth, whether we like it or not we assume that we’ll stay together. Is it that simple?

The answer is no….

What do we generally do, when we go through a break up phase in these relations? Many of us simply skip talking… Which is the worse way to handle it. Nothing can be sorted if you won’t say it… Talk it out… It doesn’t mean that you must argue. Things could be sorted out in simpler way…

In this modern world, we are not sharing that strong bond with our blood relations even. Because, we are short of healthy conversations. This won’t ask you for doing something out of the box, but smaller things like, just an everyday call to your loved ones, if you are living far from them. And if you are with them, spend some time with them and ask how they are doing…. Just wishing them on their important days.

Yes, we all love our loved ones (obviously!!! that’s why those are loved ones 😉, jokes apart). But, how many of us really say it or express it through small gestures? why don’t we say/express it? sometimes just expressing feelings, those are already there deep inside your heart, also makes a huge difference.

Common, let’s open up …And try to change the perspective of looking at world. Let’s not judge anything/anyone and overcome our hesitations and insecurities. Appreciating others doesn’t mean you are any lesser… Apologizing doesn’t mean you were wrong… Sometimes relations are more important than being right or wrong … Right?

So, what are we waiting for? Let’s go and say it. If, you really liked someone/something… Appreciate things…. If, you are guilty, please say it…. Don’t take anything for granted… Don’t assume things. No one is blessed with those special powers, so that they could understand things without saying it… Believe me assumptions make things further complicated than those really are…

We are all born to die one day…. But, make each one to miss us, whoever we have met… we don’t know how much time we all are having…. So, express your feelings right there… It will make you feel lighter from inside and happier from outside….

We are all born to die one day…. But, make each one to miss us, whoever we have met… we don’t know how much time we all are having…. So, express your feelings right there… It will make you feel lighter from inside and happier from outside….