Hey, Hieeee, Helloooo. Hope you all are doing well. Here I am with a new perspective to see the common things. So, lets go.....
Today I'm gonna talk about the judgments!!!!!
No no no.... I'm not gonna tell you that, you should not judge people at first sight and blah blah blah....
You must be knowing that, each coin has two sides? So, I am just going to flip the coin and show you the another side !!!!! Are you ready to flip the coin ?? !!!!!
We all know that we should not judge the people at the first meeting, without knowing them, by their appearance and by any other thing which is really very superficial. Because those judgments may go wrong. But again, the same question, then why can't we control ourselves from making those "JUDGMENT AT FIRST SIGHT" ?
Actually after thinking a bit, I realized that, our brain also needs initial data like programming!! See, if the totally unknown person comes to you and starts conversation, Then ? How will you react????
Yes , for this purpose our brain needs the initial data, that is nothing but "JUDGMENT AT FIRST SIGHT". and according to that judgment it reacts.
After spending some more time with that person it starts to make two lists, of goods and bads. And finally after spending a long time with that person, it will make a firm decision about the nature of a person and how to treat him/her.
So, if we want to treat the people nicely, we want to have a best conversation with them and do not want to regret like " ohhh , I could say that, at that time...." ...... Then we should observe the people and let our brain make a judgment.
There's nothing wrong in making initial judgement, those helps us to react nicely. But it goes wrong if we pass those in public. If we will become frank to accept that, our judgment was wrong and change it accordingly, instead of sticking to the "JUDGMENT AT FIRST SIGHT", then this problem of making judgment won't remain problem any more. It will become our strength to think, to observe, and to communicate :D
So, from now, if you realize that people are judging you, then don't worry dear!!! Let them judge, May be, they are trying to study you and want to have nice conversation with you :D
BByee, Take care.... And don't forget to change your old wrong judgments..... :D
