Hey, hieee, hellooo...... I hope you all are doing awesome :D
Here I am, with a new thing to share. So, lets start.....
The last time when I went to my hometown, I also went to my maternal aunt's place. We both were really very happy, seeing each other after a very long time. We started to chitchat. At that time she was telling me that, someone hurt (emotionally) her very badly.
It seems familiar right? Yes absolutely, we all are facing such a situation in our day to day life. And we always get disappointed. I know everyone, even a google will tell you that "don't expect anything from anyone, so that you won't get hurt". And yes, after knowing this "GOLDEN RULE", we still can't resist ourselves from expecting. It is really very natural.
But, if you will think a bit deeper, you will get to know that, it is not all about expectations which hurts !!!! There is something else too, which plays really very important role in getting hurt. That is nothing but the IMPORTANCE. Yes, It is also about the role of that person in our lives. If the person is highly important in our life, then everything he/she does will impact you highly. But if, he/she is not "THAT" important, then you won't even realize what happened a day back. And the nothing of them will be able to hurt you. Expectations are natural but Importance is not. We can decide, whom to give and whom not?
If we use this "Tool" of Importance properly, we can be really very happy in our lives. And at the same time, we can also find the people, really cares for us. So, from now, if someone says that, he/she has got hurt by your behavior, then congrats dear, you are one of those few lucky people who means a lot to someone :D
And yes, don't forget to apologies for your behavior, cause you won't get such a nice people easily :D
